The moments you are missed
When you need a warm embrace and there is no one around,
What do you do about it?
Looking at a movie yesterday where a young couple started
their romance and exchanging their first intimate kiss,
I felt immediately, how much I miss your kisses and big hug.
Even though I sense your energy around me as well
the love swelling in my heart, my physical being
wants to be touched.
Heart to heart connection while making love to each other,
With each other, filled with the joy, laughter and happiness.
The Union we found within the eye connections when
our eyes hooked into each other at the same time,
being in sync even though there was a room filled with people.
The look in the car mirror we exchanged, when we were young
and the immediate recognition I love you and have loved you.
Moving through the days that has been behind me after you
Made your transition, there is this constant movement inside.
I miss you and I am with you, both energy waves are there.
I feel you when I need you, being aware of this sensation
In the depths of my heart, as well the spontaneous smile
That appears on my face.
So close and yet so far away in presence, yet never gone in
essence, of your soul, your big heart, your personality.
Growing and expanding even shining brighter as ever
Yet not for everyone to see and notice.
So grateful for those in my life, who are able to see your
Bright and tall light you present your self with at them.
As you do with me, by feeling this enormous wave of warmth
And love during an encounter,
filled with love and acknowledgement.
On solid ground most of the time with my new way
Of exploring how my life can enfold in this material sense.
Talking to you whenever I need some advice is something
A lot of people can relate to, communicating with the
Beloved after they made their transition.
In tears when I see something in a movie that relates
To you and your way of dealing with the struggles.
The enormity of this endeavor we both agreed on
As our souls contract and mission to move forward.
Through any and all that needed to be addressed
Healed and cleared from passed lifetimes and cruelty.
Because this was also part of this journey, how to let go
And bring in not just forgiveness, no in order to open up
And enabling to let all the walls come down in one big woosh.
Therein lied the bareness, the vulnerability, the dignity
As well the fears, sorrow and anxiety.
Love brought all the elements together and then some.
More is there to come because my journey isn’t over
And there is still a lot to do and to accomplish,
With you in my corner and having my back,
You will be as always the wind beneath my wings
Allowing me to fly.
And so it will be done again
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages 15-6-2017
Me-Member the unity within yourself
Today is about fulfillment,
to ME-Member the unity deep
within yourself with the Vast felt Love
as a Spark of Divinity.
The energy you are aware of
when you can still you mind and go
deep within your state of Heart.
The sudden emotion that stirs up
when you get in touch with the
Unconditional Love from Source.
Which you can only recognize
because you understand the feeling
that has been ignited from within.
Keep it simple.
No fancy words are necessary
to understand what is going on.
The more words you are willing to give,
the more space you create for turmoil
And that is not what you are going
Since deep within the experience
and awareness of the feelings of Love
there will be silence.
No need to explain to your self
because you immediately will understand
and recognize in this Sacred Space
within your Self.
Just feel the unconditional Love
and Know this is You,
connected with All that Is.
Whatever Name you were giving it,
there is no more need to put labels
or names to this experience.
Just knowing you are loved
and beloved without any limits
or boundaries, in an unmeasurable Way.
To Be in the Center of your Heart
Expanding and exploring the
Depth of Love.
When you want to perform to be the best you can be
Sometimes people want you to perform and deliver your best effort, in order to challenge you to do the best you can. When this is out of love, it will be not just a challenge, it is also about trust for the best interest they have in you. I think we all know those attempts to perform, one way or the other. In so many areas there is this demand to perform in something you are not always comfortable in. We know how to excel in those we are good at, comes natural or gained through hard work and perseverance. In this case it is about writing an article about the topic Perform which includes performance as well the need to be able to deliver something worth reading.
When writing is something that is so much part of yourself you cannot ignore, it is not so much about performance, as well how to perform to be the best I can. High standards I have in order to write something worthwhile reading. Yet I also know I write because I can allow the words come to live on paper when given a topic. At school writing essays as well setting up a story with a topic nobody really wanted to talk about. So you could say I love a challenge, as well to speak my mind and show my interest I have in certain areas. Like the way how groups interact and are being dominated by just one person at times. Instead of using the common interest in having a sound and transparent community as a group, with social boundaries about behavior for instance.
Psychology always had my interest and being an observer I love to watch the dynamics between people since an early age. How do they perform within a group when they are been given a task? This might be on a physical level. Like playing within a team of sport, or as an individual competing with others to win the highest award possible. Don’t forget that these types of performances are been judged and rated. We all know the numerous shows, like the ability to show your greatest talent, or determine who will be the best vocalist in the land. Like this is something that comes with our human nature, the competitive streak. Also known as the will to win and be the best, so you have the most power.
Wars have been fought for it, power struggles are still going on worldwide in order to dominate through winning. Not always through the most uplifting performance. When a group of people is forming a team to perform a task, they only can succeed if they team up together to bring forth the best possible performance. Each member must have the will to perform the best they can. Also they will have to learn from each other the strengths and weaknesses, in order to learn how to perform for the best result. They also have to accept the fact each one has a different tempo, or a different way of achieving. Where to set the bar, for the best result as a group, envisioning the best way to perform.
To perform is sometimes about being efficient, other times maybe about synchronicity. In order to perform any task, it is necessary to know the content as well which direction you want to go. So when it comes to writing an article, of course I want to achieve the most optimal performance. To get your attention, to hold your attention till the last sentence. To make it interesting, an easy read or listen to. Yet also, to bring in a different perception or perspective at times. To show a bit of my inner world, in order to allow the article to be written. Because I know, I can only write and perform at my best, when I allow the words to come out. Don’t intervene to much whit the flow of the words. So to speak, because that prevents me to get stuck in the logical mind or mental mind.
Allowing the words to come out, about any topic, it also assists me to get more and more into this creative performance. That is where I find my passion to write. In there I can let the inner knowledge and wisdom come out in order to be shared. I love my writing to be of high standard as well appealing to others. So in order to perform to my best ability, I have to connect with my inner source and heart. Because there is where my creativity comes to live. Tapping into this energy field, I am able to perform in a way I never would have held for possible. I know I have a way with words since I was a kid and it not something to brag about. It is a quality and a gift I have and needs to be used in a way that it will be serve its purpose as well. To perform to my best as possible and deliver my best performance.
When my articles come through the Heart as well the Love, I can trust and relate on my inner source to bring out my best performance. For that moment in time, that is. It is always the Now moment we excel or perform on our best. Practice and training will offer the fruits and perseverance will bring in the results of progress. Yet in times, of change, or differentiation, the challenges might differ as well the outcome. So, when we want to perform just to be the best we can be, there is no such thing as failure, or judgement. You know you did the best you could do at that given time and moment. And that’s all you have to do, isn’t it. Be the best you can be.
And so it will be done.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages 5-6-2017
When roles are shifting out of the ordinary
When life throws you a curve ball
It is up to you to catch it and work with it.
It may be out of your comfort zone
And not something that might be easy to do.
Yet it offers you an opportunity
To step out of your normal routine.
Isn’t it all about balance?
How to get rebalanced again when it happens.
Every thought and emotion that come up.
Because of the changes they need to be looked at
In a different way and also different perspective.
You are no longer the same as you were before
Due to the challenge that lies within each new
Experience as well the way we relate to it.
This is a constant factor in our life,
Weather we realise it or not, it is an ongoing process.
Life is all about change and growth and we can
Adept or fight them, allow to come up what is there
Or ignore what it wants to let you know.
There are situations that have a small impact
Yet others will be a real challenge for it is a shift
Most of the times it depends on the way we are
Able to adept or adjust to them how easy the change or
Shift will be.
Yet talking about out of the ordinary roles, there are a
Few that come to mind, like become a parent, or wife,
Or maybe the other way around, first the partner and lover
Then the father or motherhood, which can change into
The grandparent thing as well.
To be able to stay in touch with the inner core of ourselves
To me that is the biggest challenge when life throws me
A curve ball directing me in a totally different direction.
Not always one I choose, sometimes one I really don’t want
Yet every time change comes a shift in perspective is needed.
It takes courage and strength at times to go through the
Normal routines that no longer feel like normal,
Yet become out of the ordinary.
When the role of caretaker shifts into taking care of one self
And the experience is not being a smooth ride.
We all go through these different phases in our lives.
In every lifetime we experience the loss of someone we love,
The different stages in our lives, either personal or professional.
They all require a new way of finding a balance again within.
The more we can release of the emotions connected to the
Experiences that are causing hurt, pain, sorrow or fear,
The more we are able to embrace a different role
Life demands from us to accept,
To create a new balance
Within the core of our heart and awareness,
The better we are able to step into our new role
The best way we can and know.
Love will always be of assistance and all we need
Is to allow and trust the healing power that lies within.
By doing so we will create any role, even out of the
ordinary, for we can stand on firm ground and
have confidence by letting Love show us the way.
Self-love is a major component that enables us
To step in to any role that is been created to let go
Of any that is holding us back to be the best we can be.
For we are Creator and Creation all wrapped up in one.
And so it will be done.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages 27-5-2016
Make your Heart a sanctuary and Self Love your security.
Ask yourself why you judge and condemn yourself so harshly. Be willing to follow your Inner shadow processes in order to learn from their Gifts. This advice today was coming in loud and clear for the past few days have been all about the inner shadow processes. I know these are holding the gifts for me to learn and heal, as well receive. When the energy shifts and emotions are coming up it is always a sign I need to be aware as well watchful. This means as well going through the emotional eruptions as watching as an observer what happens and what triggered it.
Am I judging myself or being too hard on myself? Yes I am at times, I know that from my lifetime experiences and all the steps I had to take to let go. The judging as well harshness is mostly internalized anger to hide the sorrow that lies underneath. The drive as well the need to be doing the best I can and not always as compassionate with myself. It took me some hardship as well challenges to deal with. I could be the overseer for everyone else, except myself. I am able to take a high view to oversee the situation when being asked to do so. Blessed with this gift, it is not always the easiest to use it for myself. It has a lot to do with the way I blame myself for being stubborn and go through the same lessons again.
Loving myself required more acceptance as well the ability to learn to accept and allow what comes my way. This enables me to be the observant, as well the participant. I can see the obstacles as gifts the minute I accept them as my tools and teachers. Going deep within the emotional state that comes with sorrow or anger, confusion or resistance. In the darkness lies the gift, for this enables me to move forward. I know this, I have learned this along the way. My little black box so to speak, showing me what needs to be healed. By doing so, it releases every emotion or stuck energy that is connected with it.
It is at times the most difficult challenge, when confronted with old patterns that are changing. Not because I had a hand in it. Change because the other party is changing the pattern. Leaving me with empty hands it seemed at one point. By letting go it also created space and this enabled me to watch the process from a different angle and overview. The expression of myself in any role I took upon myself this lifetime is a constant flux. I need to surrender to this constant demanding of letting go, by releasing old patterns that kept me from loving myself. Otherwise, I will stay stuck in this emotional state. Taking a step back also means letting go, let the situation enfold itself because I have no part in it. That was my first shock, I wasn’t part of it any longer. I had no control in this situation, which created this trigger and what was hidden underneath.
Losing control over my own life as well the situation at hand triggered this fear of being left alone. Not part of the decision making any longer also showed that the situation has evolved and I have to go with this evolution. It is either that, or creating more fear and tension on top of the old wound. It made it clear, what residue still lingered in the deep. This works as a tool to me, for the knowing of this old pattern holds the key to heal it. The love I feel towards myself as if I am depending on the confirmation from the outside. Letting go of this need, it enables me to bring in this Love energy within this challenge. Witnessing the wounded part covering with loving energy is setting me free.
Time to heal the parts hidden in the shadows. Through love instead judging or condemning myself my Heart will open up more and more to myself as well. By doing so, my Heart will be the guide in every step I take. When I get troubled, all I have to do is go inward, step into my Heart space and know I am loved and cared for in this space. Every emotion I can bring in this sanctuary that is being created through loving myself for who I am. With all my flaws as well gifts I have received through love. This makes my Heart space my sanctuary and my ability to love my self creates a secure surrounding. Allowing me to be all that I can be. All that I want to be.
And so it will be done.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages 26-5-2017
Freedom – what is it all about?
Freedom is just about making choises, choises in life and the choices are based on perception, beliefs, emotions, patterns. So it is hard sometimes to know if you make the right choice, for Your Self and the other.
Micro – Macro, it is one and the same, for you all are connected with one another. Every choice you make is like a ripple in the water, created by a pebble you throw in, it increases and effects way more then you can ever imagine.
If you want to be clear about the intention your choices are coming from, you have to know your Self. You can trust and rely on the feel if something is making you happy or sad, relieved or upset, those are the guidelines to know and come to an understanding which aspects are connected. For you know you can see your reflection in the outside world by the reflections you receive.
Even if it’s not your intention to hurt some one, it can happen just by choosing the words carefully and in kindness, or be as sharp as a raisor or sword. Focus before you speak, feel what lies within and be silent when the answers are not clear or you’re not convinced about the propper outcome.
In listening to another there is also a great lesson to be learned. It will tell you what kind of emotions are being brought to the surface, maybe even more so between the lines. Read the eyes, take notice to see what they are reflecting and if so keep in mind it is also a reflection of your self, since you also know this from own experiences and being empathic you will be able to choose more wisely which kind of respons is in need to create a situation that will benefit you both.
Be-coming aware, learning about the pattenrs that are created by old emotional wounds you will be able to understand more easily why the other is responding in some ways.
Even if they are not aware of it themselves it will give you the opportunity to make a descision witch will create a space of love and understanding and you are free to make your choise right then and there.
That’s your freedom of choice. It is up to you to decide if you want to be happy and fulfilled instead of being unhappy, resentful and stick to the old ways as patterns that have been created over a long period of time.
You can choose Love, you can choose Life. For Life and Love are One and the same. Without Love there will be Fear and where is Fear there can be no Love.
Free your self from any burden that is keeping you from the Love in your Life. Embrace every opportunity that will appear to shed your Light on it and share the Love that comes from within for Your Self. As much as you Love Your Self, that’s what you will be able to bring forth.
Unity with Self creates Freedom and leaves a big imprint on every one you encounter since they see their own Reflection of Self in You.
So choose carefully, dear one.
And so it is.
High Self – @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Message – 11-9-2013
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What is it about Suppression?
Suppression is being done by both sides, the moment the power shifted. The moment the shift between energy feminine/masculine was entering duality through incarnation. You are a child of light as much as everyone else..
Through lifetime experiences the balance between both energies got distorted.. we not only have to heal the feminine wound as well the masculine
Yet you can only start healing your own wound.. from within.. the accident, or incident ..your soul’s mission to come here in the density of 3D as a human being your soul incorporation.. with the issue at hand.. restore the balance between male/female energy from within.. then there will be no battle left..
You sweet one has chosen this lifetime to finally restore this inner balance.. to be the giver as well receiver ❤ to be love in all its aspects as well bringing all aspects home again ❤ Love for your self is priority number 1.. as long as there is doubt. lack of. you will search for it outside yourself.. from within you can heal this emotional wound, conflict, through the emotional, physical, mental and etheric bodies.. healing the present will also clear and heal the ancestral lines past as well future.
Your focus… breathe is one tool that will assist.. going inward your sacred Heart is the other.. there you will find the unconditional love, the Christ energy as well Buddha energy filled with compassion and kindness to be filled every cell of your being.. this is the time your soul wants to incarnate within your physical being here in this time frame..
You are scattered as well scattering the energy you need to heal your own emotional wound.. feeling lesser as a woman.. feeling the one responsible and acting on it, give as well receive is needed to be balanced out because now you are out of balance. causing turmoil within your emotional as well physical being.. you are at a point in time to be able to change the outcome.. not because you want to heal everyone else , just because you start by healing your own inner world.. bringing love in every cell, bringing light in every cell, bringing in compassion for you in every cell, kindness as well gentleness.. so you can release the hurt, the anger but most of all the sorrow
Your emotional wound isn’t just yours.. it is an universal wound as well, therefor we are getting assistance from the light world, the energy of the light masters as well the angelic beings. in order to bring in back harmony in our own system.. individually as well humanity wise.. it all starts with in our selves.. to bring in the love and accept and allow the knowledge as well the wisdom that is coming out of the dark spots hidden behind walls, doors. There you will find the Diamond with all her facets.
High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
Heartfelt Messages, Channeled May 11, 2017
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