Insight into Cruelty and Lack of Love

Insight into Cruelty and Lack of Love

Dear beloved One
You ask me about cruelty.
Cruelty is one of the most difficult lessons
To understand.
It’s almost the direct opposite of Love
And tenderness.
Being cruel to anyone,
Regardless of age, gender, race,
human or animal kingdom,
it is just the opposite tone of joy and pleasure.
It is often combined with joy, pleasure, and power,
Or the need to overpower anything besides oneself,
For therein lies the root.
There is no feeling of self-love projected outward just to feel there is existence and a purpose
For the soul to be alive and going through
The darkest corners of the soul itself.
Suffering can cause this extremity of
Lack of empathy and lack of love for oneself
and therefore every other creature,
Human and animal.
It is a power structure built on hate and anger
And often turned against itself,
to not feel the painful memories and experiences.
One can choose to be no longer a victim of circumstances
and to become the perpetrator of some sort to lash out,
without any boundaries at times.
What if I tell you, there is also an act of love to be found
In cruelty, inflicted and triggered again deep within themselves
for no specific reason as it might seem at times
yet it always comes from
The lack of love is felt deep within.
No trust, no faith, no hope of some sort
That love exists at all.
Therefore, there is no love to be found
Deep within the soul as well.
All the emotions that come with abuse, fear,
sadness, are turned outward in a lashing act of rage.
Not being or feeling worthy of any kind of love,
Creates an outward reaction to punish,
Instead of being punished to feel the power,
Instead of powerless.
Should we not feel their pain and agony?
Should we not care for them and their pain and anguish,
which creates this form of self-destruction?

If you can say I love my enemy
I forgive my enemy
I thank my enemy
I am sorry that there is so much pain within you
And I am You as well.

Maybe not to this extension
Yet are you not also capable of hurting someone else
Physically, emotionally, mentally, and psychically
To some degree because you also have been in a place
Of self-lowing, no self-love,
Of worthlessness, instead of feeling worthy
To be alive.
It takes courage, love, and perseverance to dive
Deep within these dark aspects of your soul
And bring them to light
So they can be forgiven, to be healed again.

Don’t judge a book by its cover,
Or, as the saying goes:
you have to walk a mile in someone’s shoes
To know and understand a little bit about what
Life experiences someone has gone through
And from which place actions come.
Don’t pass judgment so easily if you don’t know
The whole story behind the reactions or actions.
Not even your Creator passes judgment and
Will always love every spark of Divinity
Which you all are, unconditionally.
Losing your Innocence is far more difficult
To heal by someone who takes innocence,
Then the innocence itself.

And so it is

High Self @RheaDopmeijer ©
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